Why Good Relationships Go Wrong

Stable, nurturing relationships are an important ingredient in every individual’s life. When we find them, we value them. Sometimes good relationships go wrong, and a good deal of the time the individuals involved are relatively clueless as to why this is happening. A good relationship that develops problems can sometimes be worse that an “okay” relationship that goes through the same level of problems. Why? Because the individuals involved in the good relationship never saw it coming!

Did we just “think” that our relationship was a good one? Were we wearing blinders? Does it have to be over? Sometimes we are wearing blinders … we see what we want to see. Sometimes the relationship really is good, but there may be certain areas that one or both parties will not talk about, and these end up being trigger points for conflict.

Your psychic reading looks at the strengths (and weaknesses) of both individuals involved. It will help you see what each party brings to relationship, and what each party needs from relationship. It will also look at any “agendas” that either party brought into the relationship. Were you looking for someone to take care of you, and your partner really wanted someone that was a little more independent? Do you want your independence, and they want children? Is there an unspoken agenda about finances and spending?

Once defined, areas of conflict can be looked at with fresh eyes, and options for resolution developed. Sometimes a good relationship gone wrong can be saved with a little effort, and sometimes you have to walk away, taking the lesson that you learned with you.